Love at First Sight

Do you believe in love at first sight? Scientists study our brain activity and say that it’s quiet possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe. It never happen to me and I don't believe it until now.I could falling in love with boy when I have known him for such a long time. I don't mind about the looking as long as we always have good conversation and his personality is good. When I "like" boy faster..at first sight..(it means especially just because of his good looking) it never for long times. It end as faster as it started. and if it started slowly, it'll be so hard to forget it. It happened!I don't say it won't happen to me. It can change. Life is about changing, right?

How about you?

Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?

"Keep Your Mind Wide Open"

Yesterday..I cried so hard because of a movie. I never imagined this movie could make me cry. I though this is a fun kid-adventure movie, that is full of joyfull, happiness and no sadness, even less make me crying.
...It's "Bridge of Terabithia"...

It was very Great sad movie! I never had felt losing for movie's character. I just felt losing for my favorite TV shows's character that I have watched many episodes. but for 2 hours movie? never happen before!

It's about friendship between Jesse Aarons (Josh Hutcherson) and Leslie Burke (AnnaSophia Robb). First 1 hour was like what I think about this movie but more deep friendship!

AnnaSophia Robb is a great actress. I like her acting. She can make me love her character and then when Leslie died... it was sooo sad.... T_T I can felt what Jess felt, losing a best friend...I cried so hard!

Four thumbs for this movie!

and I'll always remember Leslie's quote...

"Keep Your Mind Wide Open"

... Broken Heard

Have you ever feel the pain of an ended relationship? your Ex leave you? Cry days because of that? Yeah...I ever feel that pain and it's not easy to forget. I need long time to heal from that broken heart. Eventhough it's very hard..but you have to forget it, maybe not now..but soon! Like people say life must go on. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to who its worth.


I ever read a website (http://depression.about.com/cs/psychotherapy/ht/Broken_Heart.htm) about how to heal a Broken Heart by Nancy Schimelpfening. Maybe you can try her suggestion:
1. It's okay to grieve for a time. Seek support from your friends and family as you come to terms with the changes in your life.
2. Don't look at past relationships as failures, but rather as opportunities to learn and improve your relationship skills.
3. Don't worry that you're not in a relationship. Your value comes from who you are, not who you're with.
4. You don't have to be a recluse just because you aren't a couple. Treat yourself to an evening out doing something you enjoy. Take along a friend if it's not a solo activity.
5. Treat yourself to a special gift now and then. You are a special person and you deserve it.
6. There's more to life than romantic love. Take this opportunity to nurture your friends, family and self.
7. Take some time to reevaluate what you need in a relationship. Have you been choosing partners who are not capable of a loving and mature relationship?
8. Be willing to take another chance on love. Like they say, you can't win if you don't play.
9. Be a friend to yourself. If you care about yourself, the odds are better you will attract those you care about you too.
10. If you're finding it hard to let go of a relationship, you may need to seek counseling. An obsessive need to be with someone who no longer wants a relationship may be a sign of love addiction.
11. Avoid jumping into a rebound relationship. Take some time to work through all the issues from your previous one.
12. Don't try to get revenge. This will only slow your progress in healing from the hurt.
13. Forgive yourself. You can't change the past, but you can learn from your mistakes and not repeat them.
14. Forgive your partner. This doesn't mean that you are saying what happened is okay. What it means is cutting your losses and not investing any more time in something that hurts you.

When you are broken heart sometimes all of opinion to heal that broken heart can be not working at all. it happened to me, but at least you can try..maybe it'll working. My suggestion..don't always remember all good memories that you and your ex made, it make you hard to move on. I mean you can memorize it but don't think that it's the best! You can find more and don't give up with Love. Just remember...The hardest part of loving someone is knowing when to let go,and knowing when to say goodbye.

Forget the times he walked by,
Forget the times he made you cry,
Forget the times he spoke your name,
Remember now your not the same.
Forget the times he held your hand,
Forget the sweet things if you can,
Forget the times & Don't pretend,
Remember now he's just your friend.

For Girls... "No Guy Is Worth Your Tears & When You Find The One That Is He Won't Make You Cry"

If You Really Love Something Set It Free. If It Comes Back It's Yours, If Not It wasn't Meant To Be

Jen's speech

dawson's creek again... eventhough I have never watched season 6 of DC yet.. I watched the You Tube DC video.. and I realize that Jen leave a very touchfull speech for her daughter..
I love Many part of this speech. What do you think?

Jen: "Hi, Amy, it's mom. Well, by the time you see this, I won't be here anymore, and I know how much that sucks, for both of us. So seeing as how I won't be around to thoroughly annoy you, I thought I would give you a little list of the things that I wish for you. Well, there's the obvious. An education. Family. Friends. And a life that is full of the unexpected. Be sure to make mistakes. Make a lot of them, because there's no better way to learn and to grow, all right? And, um, I want you to spend a lot of time at the ocean, because the ocean forces you to dream, and I insist that you, my girl, be a dreamer. God. I've never really believed in god. In fact, I've spent a lot of time and energy trying to disprove that god exists. But I hope that you are able to believe in god, because the thing that I've come to realize, sweetheart... is that it just doesn't matter if god exists or not. The important thing is for you to believe in something, because I promise you that that belief will keep you warm at night, and I want you to feel safe always. And then there's love. I want you to love to the tips of your fingers, and when you find that love, wherever you find it, whoever you choose, don't run away from it. But you don't have to chase after it either. You just be patient, and it'll come to you, I promise, and when you least expect it, like you, like spending the best year of my life with the sweetest and the smartest and the most beautiful baby girl in the world. You don't be afraid, sweetheart. And remember, to love is to live. "

dawson's creek

Hey...Do you like Dawson's Creek (DC)? or at least do you know Dawson's Creek? just in case you don't know what it's..it's a US TV series in 1998-2003. Well, it's my favorite..I love Dawson's Creek!!!
Actually the first reason why I like DC is because of Joshua Jackson, a cute guy from The Mighty Ducks trilogy. I still remember the first time I saw first season of Dawson's Creek trailer..when I was in first grade of middle grade.. I was about 12 or 13 years old. I always waited hardly and watched DC every week, still remember it was in tuesday at 9pm (in my country channel..of course!). I like the story, all their conflict, the love story (especially joey and pacey) and their friendship! I like all actors and actress, the soundtrack.. Thanks to Kevin Williamson who had created this series. I had watched all 3 seasons on TV, then watched 4th season-5th season on DVD. Actually I have 5 seasons of DC, unfortunately I don't find the last season T_T hiks... so I haven't watched the last season, try to download it in internet now, but the speed of my internet is low. I just saw the last season trailer on Youtube.com... it's so sad! sad because Jen, one of the main character, died and it's the ending season of DC!!!

welcomePals!

^.^ Hello!

Finally I have a blog again! just hope this blog don't have same fate with the last one ^.* Yeah...not all of you know my last blog... I'll tell you about it! I always wanted to have a blog... I really want to write whatever out of my mind about everything in this beautiful world..and read it again one day.. what a weird thing is I love write letters/email to my penpals.. I tell them whatever happen with me, so that's the same things, right? write down or type whatever happen..but for me..write them to blog or diaries that's not easy like to write for my penpals... Lol.. You should be asking..so why do I try to write a blog then? Yeah.. you're right! this blog will be different... All of my letters keep be a personal thing for all of my pals... I can tell you now what the different things, just let's see later..I'm sorry if this blog is such ridiculous thing that you ever read or see. I often thought that too. just enjoy it and Leave your comment!